6 Tips to Swat away at the 'Man-quitoes' on your Girls Night out!
- Plugg Networks
- Jun 30, 2016
- 3 min read
You are out with the ladies for a drink, enjoying your me time. Suddenly men around start checking you out and throwing cheesy one liners! After a couple of drinks, even shy guys like Rajesh Koothrapali (Big Bang Theory) grow wings of confidence & then there’s no stopping. From offering you drinks or stalking you on the dance floor, you’ve all had to deal with some perv who almost ruin your girl’s night!
Your time with your girls is precious and nobody should ever get to ruin your girl’s night. So here are some tips on how to get rid of weird guys at a club!
1. Never accept drinks from Strangers
This is lesson number 1 for responsible drinking. Never accept drinks from random strangers, just for the fun of it, because it can be a risky affair. You can never trust a person who you’ve met 10 minutes ago. They might spike your drink or get very clingy later in the night. Taking offered drinks at a club by men, may give them a perception that you are open for some more.
2. Learn the club ninja walk
Walking on dance floors can be really tough considering they are super crowded and people are dancing. Drunk men seem to keep bumping into you and your drink is more on the dance floor than inside you. It's time you learn how to walk like a club ninja! Walk with your elbows raised on either side with your arms blocking your chest. In addition to saving you from being groped at, this move also protects your drinks! Carry your drink in your left hand close to your chest and use the right arm to block any overzealous dancers!
3. Chant Girl Love
There is always the unspoken girl code that you can evoke for help. Let your girlfriends know if someone is killing your buzz, they will come to rescue. Never forget to return the favor and keep an eye out for your friends looking distressed. Many a new girlfriends have bonded in warding off unwanted men and honestly there is nothing stronger & more powerful when girls stand up for other girls.
This would definitely save your girls night & call for a fun story later in the future.
4. Don’t react to the flirtatious behavior
If you aren’t interested in the person who has approached you at a bar DON’T react to their flirtatious behavior. If you truly want the behavior to stop, do not laugh or give "come hither" looks. And be careful how you use body language to confuse the matter, as some people can get mixed signals and assume there is more that you're simply too shy to vocalize.
5. Learn to say NO
When guys approach a women at a Bar, most of us have a tendency to be polite and turn them down. When you politely try to escape, sometimes they continue creeping. It seems like no matter where you go he’s right behind you, offering you a drink or buzzing around you & your girls.
When things get out of control, you need to get firm and say NO!
6. Ask for Help
Every pub/club/bar has hefty bouncers to deal with crazy drunk idiots. If the situation gets out of hand, don't hesitate from approaching the authorities at the place & they will handle the rest.
Asking for help doesn’t make you a weak person, but a responsible one!
There shouldn't be any man-quitoes around you which might ruin a fun girl's night. India hasn’t started advertising gay clubs where you could land up with your girlfriends without a care, so be cautious & party responsibly!
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